AMOR PROPIO – Here are the important things we need to understand about the concept of Filipino self-worth.
Amor propio is a Spanish term that means “self-love” or “self-respect.” For Filipinos, it is very important to culture, representing their desire to be treated with dignity and valued as people.
It encourages self-discipline and a drive for excellence. With healthy self-respect, Filipinos strive to develop their skills and avoid actions that could harm their reputation.
However, when someone becomes overly proud of their intelligence, wealth, or status, they might develop a superior attitude and disregard others’ needs. This inflated ego can justify corrupt actions and abuse of power.
Positive Effects
- Ethical Behavior: Those with a balanced sense of amor propio are driven to behave ethically and responsibly.
- Motivation for Excellence: It inspires individuals to strive for personal and professional success, enhancing their skills and contributions to society.
Negative Effects
- Arrogance and Ego: Excessive amor propio can lead to arrogance and an inflated ego, where individuals become overly proud of their achievements and status.
- Lack of Empathy: An exaggerated sense of self-worth can result in a lack of empathy and disregard for others’ needs and feelings.
- Resistance to Feedback: Those with excessive amor propio may view constructive criticism as a personal attack, leading to stubbornness and an unwillingness to improve.
Link to ‘Hiya’
It is linked to the concept of hiya, which means a sense of shame or honor. Balanced hiya fosters self-discipline, but taken too far, it leads to an unhealthy obsession with saving face and denying faults, even when faced with valid criticism.
In the Workplace
In the workplace, it reflects a Filipino employee’s desire to be seen as an essential part of the company, not just a replaceable worker. They seek recognition and validation for their contributions, stemming from a history of colonial oppression and marginalization.
While this can fuel ambition and a strong work ethic, unchecked amor propio can lead to a sense of entitlement.